Far From My Comfort Zone: Reflections from US Scholars
January 17, 2024: The US Scholars program brings exceptional graduates of the Cambodian Women’s Leadership program for one year of study in the US at partner institutions. In August, Chea Sreymach, Loy Srey Nit, Phat Solorng and Som Reaksmey started their year in Memphis at Christian Brothers University (CBU). Reaksmey and Solorng shared their reflections on the year so far:
Describe your first few days in Memphis - what stands out to you as you think back to your first week in the US?
Reaksmey: When I arrived at CBU, I found myself busy unpacking my suitcase and organizing my new room. It really started to feel like I was starting a new life in a new country then! For a moment, I had a feeling of deja vu. It brought me back to the time I had first settled into Harpswell when I felt so nervous and new to the place while also excited to begin my new journey.
What has surprised you the most about CBU or the US?
Solorng: Something that surprises me about CBU and the US is the cultural diversity. From the moment I arrived at CBU, I was a bit in shock to see so many international and exchange students just like me. It feels like there is really only a small percentage of Memphians enrolled. In a way, being in a community with so many other international students has made me feel a sense of belonging because I know I’m not the only one far away from my comfort zone.
Reaksmey: What has surprised me the most is the in-class learning style at CBU. The interactions between teachers and students are so lively and active because of the openness of the discussion and culture of expression. Students here share their ideas freely while the teacher facilitates and makes students feel like all their ideas are heard and valued. I love this learning spirit!
What do you hope to share with your peers at CBU?
Reaksmey: I love sharing about Cambodian culture with my classmates. In one class, I was given the opportunity to present about the beautiful Khmer blessing dance (Robam Choun Por) and Angkor Wat. I was so excited to explain to them in detail these two parts of Cambodian identity and I am glad that they loved it - my friends and professor said that it was their first time learning about Angkor Wat. I hope to share more of my identity with the CBU community in the future.
Do you have a favorite memory of your time in the US so far?
Solorng: One of the most cherished memories from my time in the US so far is experiencing Halloween festivities for the first time. In the week leading up to Halloween, CBU hosted a myriad of events, including a petting zoo and a Fall Fest Carnival. Immersing myself in these festivities provided a welcome break from academic responsibilities, allowing me to fully embrace the holiday season alongside my friends.
Reaksmey: The day I got to visit the Mississippi River is one of my favorite memories because it made me feel like I am not alone. On that evening stroll along the river, we were talking about the weather in Khmer and suddenly a Cambodian family recognized the language. They asked whether we are Cambodian and we had such a great time talking with them. It was a rare and special moment to meet someone who comes from the same place as myself in Memphis, so far from Cambodia, but I was glad to meet them because it made me feel at home in this new city.
How did Harpswell prepare you for your time at CBU?
Solorng: Harpswell really diligently equipped me for this journey. Of course, Harpswell sponsored expenses like vaccinations and IELTS preparation but their thoughtful support extended beyond financial assistance. Dorm managers, previous US Scholar alumnae and Leadership Residents provided invaluable guidance and advice!